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Where am I going wrong?
09-10-2012, 02:42 PM (This post was last modified: 09-10-2012 02:54 PM by Kiki.)
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RE: Where am I going wrong?
Sharon,

My heart is breaking for you. For the sake of your marriage, I want to see you with a "win" here. There are obviously deeper issues, with what your hubby is expecting of you, but that is besides the point. You need to feel pretty and attractive in your own eyes, as well as his. He is your husband, and I get that you want to feel that he is attracted to you. I know how I became more introverted, and how it affected us intimately when I kept gaining (although it was me more than him. I just couldn't stand him seeing my fat). I remember blowing right past the phase that he thought was "cute" (aka I was gaining in the "right" places") and into the phase where the phrase "beached whale" actually made it past his lips...I could have died...

I can totally understand that others don't get it. That was hands down the hardest part for me. Too bad that he won't allow the BMF, because I'd love to know what it says. I won't go into how he shouldn't expect you to starve yourself, because we can't really expect others to understand this process if he hasn't been though it himself.

I think it sounds like we need to nail down what the best macros are for you. I know that for me, I can eat the same amount of cals, but simply switch up my macros and see completely different results. There could be something that we are missing here.

Do you notice any sensitivities to the carbs when you do eat them? With carbs being too low, how are you doing on fiber? and what is the breakdown of the fats that are too high? Sat/poly/mono?

If there is a possibility that I could have access to your food diary, I'd love to take a look and let you know if I see anything. Huh

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Where am I going wrong? - theostlerscat - 07-16-2012, 09:08 PM
RE: Where am I going wrong? - Kiki - 07-17-2012, 10:27 PM
RE: Where am I going wrong? - Kiki - 07-18-2012, 11:09 PM
RE: Where am I going wrong? - EvelynNoor - 07-20-2012, 06:31 PM
RE: Where am I going wrong? - elly1979 - 07-21-2012, 04:09 AM
RE: Where am I going wrong? - Naonah - 07-24-2012, 08:03 PM
RE: Where am I going wrong? - Raynn - 07-25-2012, 12:16 AM
RE: Where am I going wrong? - Kiki - 08-07-2012, 08:32 AM
RE: Where am I going wrong? - Lucia - 08-09-2012, 08:57 AM
RE: Where am I going wrong? - Kiki - 08-24-2012, 08:55 PM
RE: Where am I going wrong? - skbarton - 08-25-2012, 09:08 PM
RE: Where am I going wrong? - Lucia - 08-24-2012, 09:23 PM
RE: Where am I going wrong? - Kiki - 08-31-2012, 08:02 AM
RE: Where am I going wrong? - Jomatho - 09-01-2012, 08:39 AM
RE: Where am I going wrong? - Kiki - 09-10-2012 02:42 PM

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